I know
that there are a lot of more links and possibilities open to you on the Internet. But the listed ones were very helpful to
me.
Every city
should have a program for victims, a victim hotline or some kind of advocacy. In my case it was the Association Against Family
Violence (http://www.baddteddy.com/abuse/shelters/ks.html). They were extremely sweet and helpful and I honestly do not know I would have gone through
all this without them.